

from what i read so far, i think you really believe that people can “like” someone with varying degrees. and i think it makes sense, for you to follow through with this belief.
maybe you can convince her with this mental framing so she doesn’t feel “disliked” and wouldn’t be too dejected at the thought.
i am no expert at your idea of liking and relationships, but i think it is a possible approach.
cheers!
zipperman! (pronounced ‘sticky fingers’)